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Rise Above the Ordinary!!!!!

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Kalana Krishantha

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Asian culture is a difference with respect to European or Latin American cultures. The position of women has been overly stereotyped from country to country according to social norms and various dynamic situations. As a result of these conditions, the liberty, freedom, and expressions of women have been limited since the beginning of time. But some exceptional women emerged above the ordinary levels, due to some special life visions and qualities of them. Have you heard the names of Malala Yousafzai, Aung San Suu Kyi, Benazir Bhutto etc.? How they became such an outstanding social positions from breaking old the social barriers? We can show some of their common qualities.

Dedication to a noble task

If you know your purpose is noble and it aims towards the welfare of humanity you will continue your way towards the success, despite the thousands of difficulties what you have to face. Malala has been fighting for educational rights of girls despite serious threats against her while Aung San Suu Kyi has been fighting for democracy.

Creativity

If you have a purpose, you should have a creativity to make a practical plan to enforce it. Otherwise, your noble life purpose may be just a dream without any practical value.

Liberalism

You should be a liberal person with an open mind and, you should not be a slave of whatever culture you belong.

Innovative Ideas

In each and every moment you should try to do something new, no matter, perhaps you may be the first person who is thinking in this way, but don’t worry, you can do it… Believe in your self-Believe in yourself. Don’t let others spoil your dreams. You were born to this world for some purpose, try to do it.

Far Away from negative people

Some people with try to stop your voyage. Don’t engage with unnecessary disputes with them. Just far away from them.

Be charm in appearance and kind and compassionate in heart

Your appearance can be considered as one most important things for your social impression. Charm appearance can attract the helpful people for your life purposes. Kind and compassionate behavior will pave the way for the gain contribution of helping others and will delight your character.

According to psychology, as humans, all our aim should be a becoming self-actualized. It does not mean that you should be rich or have big properties, land etc. It simply means at the end of the day, you should have a self-satisfaction that you have done something good for a society, your life had a purpose and it has been fulfilled…

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Kalana is a Psychology undergraduate.Environmental Journalist and an individual who is respecting much for the concept of,"Gender Equality"

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Open your mind

Kalana Krishantha

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Open your mind ladies, if you can believe it, you can achieve it
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Various people have various ideas. Because the way, they are perceiving the world is different. So, for the same issue, the view of each and every individual is different. In organizing platform, what is happening is negotiating over various issues and compromising to become a common agreement. In that sense, the current commercial world is demanding for the individuals who have open minds. Because the world what we are living is becoming more and more complex with time as a result of a development of information technology. Many and many new innovative ideas are generated. Employers want people who have an ability to open to new ideas without internal collisions and able to negotiate and compromise towards the final conclusion. People who have these skills can reach the peak of the industrial world easily than narrow-minded ones.

If we consider about the Asian society, it`s generally conservative. Especially, women are forced to be conservative more and more. This results, the higher rate of women unemployment in Asia, especially developing countries like Sri Lanka, Bangladesh. This unpleasant phenomenon will continue until the significant changes in people`s thinking patterns. You should have open minds, which is open to each and every idea without colliding with rapidly generating ideas. Not only to reach the industrial success but also for another aspect of social and personal lives, the open mind is significant.

Advantages of having an “Open Mind”

You can reach the Peak

In the industrial world, employers are seeking the open minds who can compromise with new innovative ideas and create progressive future plans.

Live peacefully

People who are open to new ideas do not involve unnecessary disputes with peer members in our society. They just negotiating, compromising and concluding peacefully!!

Having a Stress free life

You don’t want your idea to be accepted or while others to be rejected. Then your life will become a stress-free with full of satisfaction!

Feel the Sense of Freedom

Freedom comes with a mental satisfaction. Open mind paves the way to live peacefully without stress from avoiding conflicts with external society.

Rescue from stress related physical diseases

Many physical diseases like high blood pressure, heart attacks and many others are directly linked to stress. When you are living a stress-free life, you can get rid of these diseases.

As we mentioned above,

  • Be Open Minded
  • Be Stress-Free
  • Be happy

Finally, you will be successful!!!

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Don’t Afraid to be Different!!

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Term, “difference”, the word itself can create an excitement within the inner mind of the listener. It generates some fresh feelings over renewal. Generally, people don’t like to be different from the crowd. Because they are generally scared of gossips, criticisms and all the other external influences. But, people who changed the world, who created new philosophies, who made new inventions, all of them were the people who were not scared to be different. So, it’s okay, to be different and become the best version of you rather than living in your own comfort zone while hiding so many talents.

In a sense of women`s freedom, Asian society is a hundred miles behind from more civilized western countries. Many Asian cultures, there is a common stereotype of women, saying, women should be like this, they should behave in this way, not in that way. Even society has been deciding a dress code of women. So, this is really backward biased system. But, even in this society, there were and there are many female scientists, political leaders, philosophers, artists and etc. How they became such influential positions and what is the main secret behind their success. The simple answer to this question is anyone of them did not afraid to be different. People told various abusive things to them. But they ignored the view of the majority and walked on their own way. Ultimately they became succeeded. There were and there are so many examples for that. We don’t want to mention names here. if we start to write that, the list may be limitless.

How can you become different in this suppressed society?

Build a strong self-confidence

Believe in yourself, believe your talent. Don’t try to depend on other people. Always remember that you have a unique personality and don’t compare yourself with others. Because, it’s a proven fact that each and every individual has a unique genetic map and that why psychological, physiological behaviors are unique from individual to individual. So, no need to compare yourself with others. Because the only result of comparing is stress and jealousy, nothing else. But, you can have an ideal character, personalities, it’s ok. Absorb good qualities of them.

Tolerate Criticisms

Criticisms are the evidence that proves, the way you are going is correct!!If there are no criticisms, it`s a clear indication that your walk seems like unsuccessful. Generally, a considerable number of people are negative thinkers. Way, they are thinking is narrow and minds of them are fulfilled with hatred and jealousy. We have to accept that reality, no matter how dark it is. But, there may be few constructive criticisms. If you feel, you are correct according to your conscience, don’t let external forces to change your endeavor.

Don’t be aggressive

People will neglect you, sometimes they will mentally harass you. Because they think, you are alien and not belong to them. Don’t be aggressive. Accept their behavior and whom they really are. Your calmness will eventually cool down them, perhaps, at the end of the day, they will understand you!!

Be a free thinker!

Don’t let culture and social norms to influence you much. Accept the reality that culture and religion are the optional things that individual should select. Anyone, don’t have an ethical right to influence you unnecessarily on behalf of religion or culture. You can decide your own beliefs on the world and its existence

Dream and dream continuously…….

To survive as a unique individual, you should dream of successful future. Hopes are forces that make us alive. But make sure, dreams have a realistic value!!! Be yourself!! Create a difference!! It may keep you satisfied. Not only you, your beloveds will also be delighted from touching your “difference””.

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Wanna be a Star?

Anushuba Kaanaruban

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Ema Watson, Selena Gomez, Priyanka Chopra, Pooja Umashanker…. Do they really inspire you? Have you thought what if I’m her?

Well if you have, then this piece of advice might co-relate.

Today globally women’s role has considerably risen on the corporate sector contributing to the economy, while they also play a vital role in family and house chores. Education, changing trends, eradicating myths, all have tremendously contributed towards women’s growth.

Just standing in front of a spot light might only make you look like a star, but are you really achieving your long term goals and vision to be a star?

We take a considerable amount of time in grooming and looking beautiful externally. Have we thought of grooming our inner selves in order to achieve the height of success?

Take some time for yourself and reflect as to what am I now and where I want to be?

7 tips to be successful

  • Look at building your education qualifications parallel while building your career
  • Opt for the same field of studies as to what you do at work
  • Build your attitude- There is nothing we could do if the only answer for something is ‘NO’. Take courage in saying ‘NO’ for what you don’t want and don’t feel guilty about it.
  • Keep heads high attitude even when things go wrong. The sky will not fall on you!
  • Feel confident about yourself for who you are, carrying yourself as a lady with class than style.
  • Come out of your comfort zones. Failing is not embarrassing.
  • If Fail, stand up and run again. You will not win if you walk slowly in a race.
  • Don’t depend on others for your happiness. Happiness is inside you and look for it!
  • Keep reminding yourself of your life goals and start achieving them in a smaller way. Success is not too far.
  • Smile and laugh as much as you can-it keeps you refreshed and positive throughout your day.

 

Remember success is not in achieving fame or being popular. It is also interconnected with self-satisfaction, self-realization, morale, and confidence. It’s a long way journey in your life’s chapter.

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