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Let your Heart Out

Sharmi Deen

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Have you ever let out your feelings? Have you ever told someone how you feel or have you ever treated someone the way you feel for them? The common mistakes women do is that they hide their feelings, they hide their emotions most of the time. Why? Because the world says, that’s how women are created. They are created in a way that they are supposed to hide their feelings and emotions. If they like someone they aren’t supposed to express it. Why? Simply because of the fact that they are born as a female.

Stop thinking and acting how the world wants you to be. If you like someone, go tell them that you like him. The world thinks that a girl proposing a guy is some kind of a shame. Don’t believe in it. There isn’t any difference in men and women when it comes to feelings and emotions. Love, affection, happiness, and sadness are all felt the same way by both the genders. Telling someone you like them doesn’t mean that you are losing your pride. It means that you are strong enough to express how you feel. That means that you are someone who loves yourself and care for yourself more. It doesn’t matter if that person doesn’t feel the same way you feel for them. Say it before you run out of time. Say it before it’s too late. Say what you’re feeling, waiting and hiding is a mistake. It might turn into regrets someday.

Remember that sometimes the words we leave unspoken are the most important ones that should have been said. Don’t wait, tomorrow is never promised. There wouldn’t be a next time, no timeouts and no second chances. Sometimes if not now then it’s never. Don’t be scared to tell how you feel or don’t apologize for saying what you feel. That’s like running away from your true feelings and saying sorry for being real. The journey of our lives is filled with surprises, unpredictable calamities, and tiny miracles now and then. Sometimes letting out your feelings would bring those surprises and tiny miracles to keep your unpredictable calamities invisible and painless.

Never fear of being rejected. It’s okay if you get a “NO” in return after expressing your feelings. Because you are never going to wait for someone who is never going to ask you out. You have done justices to yourself by spilling out how your heart feels for them. It would hurt, but the wound would heal.  You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful, if it’s bad then its experience. So don’t lay back just because of the fear being rejected or just because you are a female.  Go take it now, tell the person how much you like them, tell them how much you missed them, and tell how much you want to be by their side. Doesn’t matter who that person is, just express how you feel about them and let your heart feel free. Love is a langue spoken heart to heart.

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Magic Ball of LOVE

Anushuba Kaanaruban

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Have you ever thought “he is the one”, “he is my prince charming”, or for ladies who are single “he will come in that white horse”….

I Love you Mid nightLove is magic I’m telling you. Why I say so is that it is felt, seen and difficult to understand the core behind it just like MAGIC.

It gives you butterflies in your stomach and at a latter part might give you shocks of a life time..!

Love is a mix of feelings if positively experienced. We often confuse ourselves with sympathy, empathy and kindness to be it, love. We despair so much to fall in love. We categorise love as puppy love, mature love, romantic love, divine love and so on..

When will I be awestruck by love? What is true love? What is love as a feeling?

Be it with your partner, what do you if you are in love? Buy a bouquet of roses and chocolates?, be side by side when needed?, be supportive at rough patches of life?, say “I love you moon to back” 1000 times a day?

These often give you state of happiness and excitement. Love is purely felt only when you experience it beyond the meaning of happiness and beyond your needings of material pleasures.

Finding your prince charming can be a pleasant journey for many, or for some unpleasant as it could be.

How to understand LOVE

  • If you need a partner only to console you when life hits you down, be financially supportive and adaptive – SPONSORSHIP not love
  • You need prince charming to show off to your girlfriends, ride along his BMW – PARTNERSHIP not love
  • You need prince charming for future prospects, to support your aged parents and live in a castle – SELFISH not love
  • You need prince charming to get rid of loneliness just because you see all your girlfriends are hanging out with partners, and you look to fulfil your inner desires- LUST not love
  • You need prince charming to agree to all your ideas, listen to all your opinions without accepting his – DOMINEERING not love

So what is love now??

Your prince charming whether he bees rich or poor, financially stable or not, dark or fair tall or short, respects you and accepts you as you are, gives your plentiful of attention, says no for what is wrong, well girls he is the ONE.

Love is more of understanding. Understanding that humans are different from each other and accepting your partner as for how he is and not trying to change their behaviours over time favourable to you.

When you aren’t able to pull life through, your prince charming should be able to push yours through what life throws at you.

Collective decisions should be made out of love.

Love needs time. Time needs patience. Patience comes with maturity. Maturity comes with age. Last but not least age comes if you WAIT!!…..

Don’t rush girls….. Love will happen, not found…

Patient girl for love

 

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